"True" friends will tell you the Truth.
2006-06-03 5:47 p.m.

This is true story of real freinds..

These friends have known each other practically their entire lives. Over time, they would lose contact for a few years, but always ended up finding each other again. Odd how it happens. ..

During a period when they lost contact, they both had children. Luck just so happens that one is a boy and one is a girl.. Anyway, girl 2 gets married to a guy that girl 1 gives her advice on, saying she doesn't really think it's a good idea because the guy's behavior is questionable.. Well, he was cheating on her, so I guess she wanted to do it to him. Girl 1 doesn't want to go out 'clubbing' with girl 2 because she feels that she doesn't want her to cheat on him since he's doing it to her. Girl 2 gets mad over it and stops talking to girl 1.

Years later-- I'm not sure how many, they found each other once again.. Girl 1 finds that girl 2's marriage has crumbled and taken a turn for the worst after having 3 children. Her 'husband' has been cheating on her and told her that he wants a divorce.. But he's got her hanging-- or it seems that way at least. He's still cheating, she's now cheating.. well, acting like she is single again and she's rather out of control.

Girl 1 can't believe that she is acting like this when girl 2 has 3 kids, a house, and a car at stake. Girl 1 went through a bad situation herself and learns that things get messy.. Very messy.. When you have a child with an evil man, he will go after you for everything you have got just because he can and because he wants the money from her..

Nonetheless, girl 1 tells her how she really feels her friend. That is that her behavior is out of control and it's not the friend she knows or remembers from so long ago. This is a very brave, noble and courageous act of friend #1 to tell her #2 that she is at risk of losing everything and to be careful.

Girl 2 is obviously quite deffensive and is mad at friend #1 for being so right. She is also in a crazy amount of denial.

Everyone feels the same as girl 1, but girl 1 is the only one who knows girl 2 like a sister and will sometimes tell her things that she may not want to hear.. But this isn't because she doesn't care about her feelings.. It's because she loves her and cares about her enough to warn her of her actions and the severe impact that they could later have on her future. Girl #2 just cant see that.